In a past relationship, I've told my partner that I loved him more than I loved myself. I meant it.
When I think about it now, I find that a very scary, unhealthy belief.
It took me years of self-realization, personal development, work with several coaches and therapists from all over the world to realize nowadays I've been at a very stable level of self-love.
I don't see myself even able anymore to love someone more than I love myself.
I didn't stop loving though. I'm just overflowing with love the last year. But always providing myself first and never again pouring from an empty well.
And as how Eartha says in this video: "I fall in love with myself and I want someone to share it with. I want someone to share ME, with me."
With love,
Minne